Maturity is realizing that none of us are easy to love. What truly matters is finding someone who’s willing to understand you, stay committed, and grow alongside you.
i’ve seen lots of my girl friends including me being damn royal to the point we’re ok at being broke asf. but if we said we want a royal partner too, we might get cancelled and looked down at. they gonna come at us saying “dih cewe matre”
maturing is realizing none of us are easy to be with. It's about who's willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you.
i still need to take care of myself and have my own world despite being so in love with this boy. had enough “lessons” of being too dependent and made my world revolves around them and ik where i’ll end up at.
masih bingung kenapa banyak laki-laki gamau melawan patriarki, bayangin: ngedate ga perlu keluar uang sendirian, nikah juga, bisa nangis tanpa dikatain "laki kok nangis", ngga harus selalu jd inisiator, bisa dapet princess treatment kaya dibeliin bunga, coklat, dan gift lainnya