the idea abusers love you does NOT start with dating but in childhood
it starts with “accepting” your parents beating you is tough love. its keeping friends who belittle and mistreat you. the brain forms this toxic normalization long before a partner starts their abuse
@BlueTheSorcerer@DestinyBond_GG@rdvelveties I have suffered from depression on and off for most of my life, and that started years before I ever got my first job.
I will admit there was one job I worked at (car factory) that actually made me miserable. But that's why I don't work there anymore.
@DestinyBond_GG@rdvelveties I work a physically demanding job, 10hr shifts, a lot of mandatory OT, not to mention throughout the week: cooking meals, doing dishes, laundry, gym & grocery shopping. You get burnt out & have no energy to engage in hobbies. Get off work at 5 and get sleepy at 8:30. Adulting 🤣
@nrmtenjoyer Hell even in mono-race families you will see different skin tones.
Both my parents are black, yet my two brothers and I are all 3 distinctly different shades of brown.
@LiquidMagician@Kouignaman40156@atlanticesque Did you even read the fucking post? He never said anything about giving into peer pressure. Just that people are annoying about you not drinking.
@GatedVerb2@beyoncegarden Oh jesus christ give it a rest already. You people are so insufferable and annoying. Nothing you're saying is true. You just pulled that out of your ass.
Homophobes will literally tell a gay person to go kill themselves under a “happy pride” post on social media…. And in the same breath say “I don’t understand why they need a whole month?”
Because of YOU , bitch.