Along the way somebody was gracious enough to take a chance on you because you had the right attitude even if you didn't have the skills to match. It's only right you extend the same grace to someone else.
as I always argue, if you have a high level of intelligence, your brain will lack the features of victimhood. your brain will pity everyone else but yourself. this is because, a largely intelligent brain sees being a winner and a victim as mutually exclusive. your brain can not identify you as two separate person, it's either it sees you as a strong person or as a weak person. but never as both..any one who will understand, truly, what life is, must be comfortable with the mental sorrow that comes with it. this is the point of my disagreement with many people that seek external happiness.