Sometimes aku rasa macam jauh lagi perjalanan aku ni.
Macam tak nampak je halatuju ke mana.
And I don’t really know who to talk to about it.
So kalau ada sesiapa yang tengah lalui benda sama, you’re not alone.
You got this. We got this.
InsyaAllah.
Bila tak solat ini memang kita tak rasa apa-apa, but Allah will show something day by day. Contoh buat kerja ada tak kena, rezeki sempit if ada pun cepat je habis. Actually that is a reminder for those yang tak jaga solat, trust me if you guys jaga solat everything will be good.
Berhati-hati dalam memberi nasihat.
Bukan setiap masa kita perlu menasihati orang.
Boleh jadi nasihat itu lebih memburukkan keadaan.
Kesesuaian & keberkesanan nasihat adalah terhad kepada konteks individu, tempat, masa.
Dalam banyak keadaan, lebih baik diam & dengar.
Kita kalau banyak duit, tak payah diminta. Mmg semua benda nak beli utk adik-beradik & family. Kau nak apa semua aku boleh belanja. Pegi makan order je apa teringin, aku bayar. Ya Allah, semoga nikmat utk boleh sentiasa belanja keluarga ni diberi buat selamanya. Amin 🫶🏻
i immediately go silent when something upsets or hurts me. it's a coping mechanism i have developed over time. instead of expressing my anger or frustration, i simply withdraw and try to process my emotions in private.
Sometimes people rant bukan sebab nak solution. They just want to let it out.
The best way when dealing in this situation is you dengar dulu, and if the rant ends with "what should I do?" then you kasi solution.
If not, then keep the opinion to yourself.