@TrillanesSonny From the way I see it, Sara has two underlying agendas for the meeting:
1. Make herself look good
2. She knows VP Leni will win in Naga. And at this point, she's in dire need of all the support and votes she can get.
@TrillanesSonny It was disrespectful that she was purposely caught off guard. Guess she didn't want to be bastos like the other. Still, it raised some disappointments.
As someone who is used to being on her own, it was frustrating at first. How you constantly have to consider the other person in every life-changing decision. Until I got to realize that no, I actually want to share all of it with this someone. The good, the bad, the ugly.
Also I think it's v important to know that some friendships are not meant to be a part of everything in your life. I got work friends, running friends, creative friends, etc. I used to mix that up and brought some friends to meet my other friends. It was an ugly lesson.
Some friends used me for connections (bc I work with pilots, FAs, and even to connect w my cousins LOL), others turned against me when they gained my other friends and even ruined some of my years long friendships, others even dragged their whole ass relationship.
Last time I checked, I never invited this girl to go with me to the gym. I just mentioned how I started working out. Now, she's mad at me for not going to the gym with her. A lot from someone who demands boundaries ig