I hope when you watch #ThePolygamist, you’ll watch beyond the drama …
Your greatest lesson should be to decenter marriage, husbands and men altogether.
You can have them; but they shouldn’t be your entire identity. ❤️🙏🏽
Girl to girl: study the patterns in your family. Look at what distracted, delayed, or derailed the women before you, then make intentional decisions to break those cycles.
refuse to be a victim of generational curses ❤️
I think one of the saddest things about me is how long I can carry emotional pain without anybody noticing.I will still laugh. Still answer texts.Still show up.Still make people feel loved. All while quietly falling apart in ways nobody thinks to ask about.
I know I’m not hard to love. My heart is genuine, my feelings are real. But maybe I’m hard to handle because I feel everything deeply. I overthink, I get sensitive, I notice small changes others ignore. And sometimes, that depth becomes heavy.
Nothing is gonna ruin a relationship faster than seeing your partner showing up for people in a way that you wanted them to show up for you. Because this means that, oh yeah, you actually have the capacity to be a good human being, just not to me.
And this also applies to friends — people who do not seem to show up for you in a way, but you know that they can do to other people? Just no.