Do not enter into a relationship while you are broke and yet to find purpose. Relationships don’t run.
Get your life together first.
And when you finally get your money up, do not date broke women.
@PabloDree@Gilmoorre This is very valid, Carterefe for an example everything comes ‘Free’ for him but remember you have to have a ‘Value’ before you enjoy these things
A lot of these girls just sit at home everyday; sleep, wake up, watch Netflix, scroll through TikTok, post fine pictures on Instagram and Snapchat hoping it gets the attention of well to do men while they do nothing all day. Crazyyyyyyy way to live life!
Three stages you have to go through when you start making money;
Stage 1: you feel the need to spend money, to impress people and let them know you’re making money.
Once you conquer this stage and stop buying things unnecessarily, you move to the next stage.
Stage 2: since you’re not spending it, you’re saving it. You then realize the money isn’t increasing, things are getting costlier. Now, you start thinking of how I can multiply this money.
Stage 3: using money to look for more money. This stage is the toughest, because it requires educating yourself constantly, the more you know, the easier it becomes for you to make more money. You can also lose money while trying to make more in this phase.
Once you conquer the first two stages, and also find your way around the third stage, you’re sorted for life.
In your 20s and 30s, you will be tempted to prove that you’re doing great. It’s important that you resist performing for an audience that doesn’t care.
If you disrespect money, money will disrespect you. Treat your finances delicate even when you're financially bouyant because nobody is coming to save you when e red!
One of the biggest mistakes I see folks make is being a free giver when they're liquid. No one is entitled to your money even if they witness you spend it after asking you for help. If you do not feel willing or upset to help you shouldn't. As you no rate person, person dey wey no rate you too. That's just life!
Whether we like it or not we all size people up and if you give people the impression money is easy to come out of you, you'd always get requests. Inaccessibility isn't arrogance and being nice is different from being kind.
Another big mistake is living for the moment. Spoil yourself but only when your goals are in check. All worldly things come in vogue and go out of style. There's time for everything.