that poor girl is being hated just for not shaking hands with a man 🥲 i also didn’t shake hands with any man in my graduation n i think we should respect women that don’t want to touch men, i know it’s just a handshake n it might be silly for others but it’s still a boundary
Al-Hāfiż Salamah ibn Dīnar said:
“Every blessing that does not bring you closer to Allâh is [really] a calamity.”
[Tahdhib Al-Kamal, vol 11 p.275 | Translated by Mikail ibn Mahboob Ariff]
Every action should be done with 3 things : love, hope, and fear .
-to seek the love of Allah
-to hope for the reward from Allah
-Doing the action or stay away from it fearful of the punishment of Allah
Righteous Predecessors used to say:
“He who worships Allah
A marriage where when both spouses cross each other's minds and rather than sigh from exhaustion or resentment, they just smile within themselves with a whisper of Alhamdulillah and a relaxed mind.
Abu Yazid Al-Basdhāmi رحمہ اللہ, said:
‘It is not surprising that I love You while I am a poor servant, but it is surprising that You love me while You are The Ever Capable King!”
[Siyar A’lam al-Nubala: 13/86]