at this point Monaleo is the only rap girly that can brag about her man. no weird ass past, no infidelity, no abuse, no nasty allegations, no side babies, no disrespect, just pure genuine love, admiration and respect for his.
In 1974, Marina Abramović performed 'Rhythm 0', a performance art piece in which she remained motionless for six hours, allowing the audience to do anything to her without resistance.
On a table beside her were 72 objects. Some were harmless, like a rose and grapes. Others were dangerous, like scissors, a scalpel, and a loaded gun.
Here's what happened to her... (thread) 🧵
African Americans are one of the black people we just unfortunately have to leave behind. They are too far gone and are exactly like their oppressors you can’t even educate them out of their ignorance it’s sad.
Once you begin to stand fully in your own agency… really own your decisions, your healing, your path —you start to realize how many people live their lives waiting to be rescued by someone else’s validation, apology, or permission.
You can still love them, but it’s hard to connect with people who keep building their identity around being hurt, around being stuck. You see them holding onto pain like it’s a story they’re afraid to stop telling, because without it
I promise you, once you develop real self-awareness and agency, the world starts to feel painfully small.
Not because you’re “better” than anyone — but because you start to see how many people choose to stay asleep. How many adults build their entire personalities around being hurt, wronged, misunderstood… because it’s easier to be a victim of life than it is to take responsibility for changing it.
When you stop romanticizing your own suffering, other people’s constant self-inflicted misery stops looking relatable and starts looking like slow suicide.
You don’t lose empathy — you lose patience. Because you realize healing is a choice. Growth is a choice. And watching someone refuse to choose themselves over and over again is its own kind of heartbreak.
It’s lonely on the other side of accountability.
But it’s also the only place you can breathe.