So, I will post less here.
I'm small acc, but if you want to keep in you can go @himalova7.
I will still use this account tho, just less. ๐
Oh, and also I have my personal account for more in real life things. If you want to interact with me, dm me for it. ๐ ๐
Teenagers have started calling AI art "boomer art" and consider it cringe, and YouTubers have stopped using AI-generated thumbnails because teenagers find them cringe and won't click on them. I honestly couldn't be happier.
Kok bisa? Menurutku ini agak B aja.
Masih penasaran di era masa lalu kan dia pelayan trus bisa naik tingkat jadi concubine si raja jahat. Itu gimana ceritanya ya? ๐ Kayaknya enga ada.
My Royal Nemesis (2026)
Bukti bahwa kalau plot niche tuh gak masalah diangkat asalkan eksekusinya OKE antara team produksi, writer dan aktor. Ketika plot udah keliatan kek tipikal drakor lawas eh dibelokin sama writer ๐ซถ suka sukaaaa
My Friends' and Former Students' Reactions to BTS's Decision
I have to admit, many of my male friends and former students, especially my old SNU buddies, have spent years busting my chops for being ARMY. To be fair, I probably deserve some of it. There aren't many middle-aged men who openly tell everyone they love BTS. Every chance I get, I talk about their music, their lyrics, or another charitable project they had supported. I even managed to convert a few of them into BTS fans, if not full-fledged ARMY.
After BTS announced that they wouldn't submit their music to the Grammys, I've never received so many phone calls and Kakao messages about BTS in my life. The Kakao group chat with my former students exploded. The reactions ranged from, "๊ทธ ํ๋ค ์๋ฐ ๋ฉ์๋ค (Those hyungs are f***ing awesome)," to "They're choosing principles over awards," to "I've always liked the way they operate, but this makes me admire them."
One wrote, "BTS is probably the only artist with guts that could pull something like this." Another simply said, "BTS๊ฐ BTS ํ๋ค." In other words, "BTS did what BTS would do." But my favorite message was this: "Now I finally understand why you like BTS so much." I smiled when I read that.
My friends, much older and professionals, reacted a little differently. They were less emotional and more philosophical, but they arrived at the same conclusion. One friend who is a business journalist called me, and we ended up talking for quite a while. He told me that many of his fellow journalists had been surprised by BTS's decision. But the more they talked about it, the more they came to admire the group for willingly giving up the possibility of winning an award in order to stand by what they believed was right.
And among the messages from my old SNU boarding house friends, one of them, a lawyer, said BTS's decision reminded her of what happened at Korea's oldest film awards, the Grand Bell Awards, in 2015. That year, the organizers announced that actors who did not attend the ceremony would not receive their awards, regardless of whether they had won. The policy caused such outrage that every nominee for Best Actor and Best Actress refused to attend and declined the awards altogether. It was one of the best examples of artists standing together against an institution they believed had become authoritarian and unfair.
She told me that it takes real courage for entertainers to do something like that. The people with power don't usually appreciate being challenged. Actors may stop getting cast. Musicians may stop getting nominated. In BTS's case, who knows if they'll ever receive another Grammy nomination after this? But all seven members stood together anyway. She ended her message by saying that she was finally going to listen to the BTS albums I had been recommending to her for years.
I also spent some time in an online community made up mostly of middle-aged professionals. The day the news broke, there must have been 50 posts about BTS. At least a dozen made it onto the HOT board, where the most-read discussions appear. One post alone was viewed nearly 15,000 times.
I read almost every post and comment, and I could not find a single negative reaction toward BTS. People, nearly all of them not ARMY, all praised the members for standing by their principles. They admired their courage. Some joked that the Grammys had just created the world's biggest BTS promotional campaign. Some, well, let's just say the creativity of the cursing directed at the Grammys was quite impressive..
One comment made me laugh the most. A member wrote that not only was everyone at his company talking about BTS's decision, but even his parents, both in their seventies and about as far removed from pop music as you can get, had asked him what had happened. BTS had become the topic of conversation for everyone in Korea.
Then, on Friday, the short-sighted music critic I wrote about on Wednesday appeared on Kim Ou-joon's program alongside two other music critics and argued that BTS probably wasn't going to win anyway, and that this was merely a power struggle between BTS and the Grammys.
The community completely lost its mind. People tore the argument apart, and there was a lot of profanity involved. Some even said they had emailed the program asking not to invite those critics back because they had completely missed the point, and are incompetent. Some even lamented that if Kim Young-dae were still alive, he would have been the one sitting there, giving us the thoughtful, nuanced perspective that only he could.
Judging by what I've seen here in Korea, and by the reactions I've been reading from around the world over the past few days, I believe BTS made exactly the right decision.
By choosing principles over trophies, they earned something that can't be placed on a shelf: the respect of people who had never considered themselves fans.
I remember the story about that woman who rented an apartment in Europe and hosted her friend Mike. There was no extra bed, so he slept on the floor.
In the middle of the night, Mike woke her up, saying, "Hey, let's go for a walk, come outside with me for a smoke."
She found his tone strange. Then he said IT HAS TO BE NOW. Made her grab her documents too. As they walked out he whispered: "WE'RE GOING TO THE POLICE RIGHT NOW."
She was confused. and didn't understand anything. Then he told her he saw a man crawling out from under the bed. When the man noticed someone sleeping on the floor, he got scared and went back in. Mike said nothing, just got her out๐ณ
They later found out that other people had been living inside that apartment the whole time. Attics, crawl spaces, inside walls, and under the floor. There's also an official term for this - PHROGGING, someone living hidden inside your home without you knowing. There are documented cases worldwide.
Every time you remember this story, just check under your bed ๐ญ
Did you know about this? ๐