y’all are so obsessed w finding a man .. girl go study, find a better job, find a skin care regimin, increase your credit, get that degree, pay off your car, build your savings, travel, live a little, but keep ur priorities straight! life is not all about a man. take care of you!
You call her toxic now, but you met her when she was kind, open, and trusting. She became guarded because you kept hurting her, reactive because you kept crossing lines, and tired because she kept choosing you while you chose yourself. That wasn’t toxicity. That was damage.
Girl to girl: please do NOT monitor your man. Do not look through his phone. Do not look through his things. Give that man complete freedom to do what he wants and see what happens. In the meantime, use all of that anxious energy towards anxiously building your own goals. Focus on a meal plan to hit your macros, focus on a workout routine, focus on a skin care routine, get another degree or advance your skills to make more money.
@t_sadiity gym, work , go for walks, journal, buy planners, I do have sisters too, play Roblox, read, listen to music, talk to my man, clean, watch anime🕺🏽