Some people come into ur lyf to stay 4eva.
Some come to teach u.
Some come to help u heal.
Some come to help u rediscover parts of yourself.
Some simply come to share a meaningful season with u.
And even if it doesn’t last 4eva, it doesn’t automatically make it meaningless.
There's a mindset we need to grow out of— the idea that every meaningful relationship that enters our life must automatically end in marriage before it can be considered valuable.
And sometimes, even if a relationship changes form, the value of having encountered a healthy human being should not be ignored completely.
I think a lot of us are so focused on “Will this end in marriage?” that we forget that human connection itself also has value.
One thing I’ve come to realize from personal experience is that staying single for too long especially after certain phases of life can quietly start affecting you in ways you don’t even notice immediately.
#life#relationship#love#singlelife
And honestly, I think this is something many people including myself have experienced in one way or another.
Has this ever happened to you or have you seen someone in this?
Kindly tag them to this piece.
Thanks 🤗🫂
His-Oracle 🖊️
One thing I’ve come to realize from personal experience is that staying single for too long especially after certain phases of life can quietly start affecting you in ways you don’t even notice immediately.
#life#relationship#love#singlelife
So no, singleness is not the problem.
But I do think staying single without emotional growth, reflection, openness, or healthy connection can quietly cost more than many people realize.