i had a friend in high school that only started claiming she was autistic after i told her i was and she used to tell me she was so jealous of my diagnosis (i was 4 when i was diagnosed)
She got 3 university degrees, she’s a business woman and ceo, she got married in her 30s (to a man 5 years younger than her) and had kids in her mid 30s. her entire life is the result of feminism