First born daughters are the hardest to love. It is hard for them to open up because people expect they are going to be okay anyway. They maybe independent, but deep inside they need someone to lean on. So be patient with them because trust me, they will love you the hardest;
As I’ve gotten older I realize it’s not that hard to buy gifts for people, the problem is a lot of us don’t actually listen to the other person when they’re talking
Once you learn about someone’s personal interests and hobbies getting gifts for them should not be that difficult