LaCarriBradshow

*inserte intro de sex and the city*

[LaCarriBradshow @holacorazon5]

If it's not experience, perhaps it's empathy what separates a good-man-in-bed from a bad-man-in-bed. To know how to listen to the needs of the other, and be receptive to the emotions that flow with it. I wonder, wouldn't the perfect sexual partner for a woman be... another woman?

[LaCarriBradshow @holacorazon5]

Samantha told me that age is not a reliable indicator when it comes to measuring a man's performance in bed. Even the most experienced has problems finding the G-spot. Social scientists: is a higher body count directly proportional to being good at sex? If not, what´s the X axis?

[LaCarriBradshow @holacorazon5]

The endless cycle: if dating isn't fun anymore, how do we keep meeting people and also feel good about ourselves? Then it must be true that in order to love someone else you have to love yourself first. But why does that seem to be less fun than just going back to dating again?

[LaCarriBradshow @holacorazon5]

Charlotte was telling me how she envies the laid-back type of girl that can date a guy without meltin-down at the same time. But, is that woman real? Because all i see is friends worrying about the next text, and putting their worth at stake. Is having fun in dating an illusion?

[LaCarriBradshow @holacorazon5]

For some, intellectuality is the most sexy atribute that a man can have. I wonder, are we so deprived from good conversations with men that we have to invent terms such as 𝘴𝘢𝘱𝘪𝘰𝘴𝘦𝘹𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺 just to say that we crave something more profound than the simple "hi wyd"?

[LaCarriBradshow @holacorazon5]

Every girl that has seen the movie "He´s Just Not That Into You" (2009) felt horrified by the idea of being a Gigi: the girl that always gets rejected because of the intensity of her romance projections. I wonder, is the world filled with Gigis pretending not to be clingy?

[LaCarriBradshow @holacorazon5]

When you just started dating, when is it appropiate to suck the guys d1ck? To Miranda, 3 dates; to Charlotte, not before marriage, and to Samantha, you shouldn't wait at all. if you do it too early, is it a ritual for passage to more intimacy, or a resigning letter to commitment?

[LaCarriBradshow @holacorazon5]

For some, like Mrs. Bachelet and me, at the end of the day all we want is a walk on the beach holding hands. But now it´s more difficult to meet people organically, and Tinder-dating feels like a depressing solution. For all of the hopeless romantics out there, are you OK?

[LaCarriBradshow @holacorazon5]

It´s not the 50´s anymore, people can have children without being married, women can vote and we don´t pearce baby´s earses anymore .But, for some, traditional ideas are still appealing. How do you survive in the 2020´s if you are a date-to-marry type of gal?

[LaCarriBradshow @holacorazon5]

As we get older, the number of heartbreaks and failed relationships start to rise. In theory, experience should lead to wisdom, but, is that true? I begin to wonder...in the matters of the heart, are we getting weaker or stronger each time?

[LaCarriBradshow @holacorazon5]

My friend Charlotte has been trying the Tinder method with deplorable results. Three men in a row stopped calling after sex. Apparently, it doesn´t matter if the dating stage took two weeks or two months to get there, the result is the same. Are men finally done with romance?

[LaCarriBradshow @holacorazon5]

I did some research upon the Porn subject. According to Samantha, the younger the guy the more "performative" he would go on sex. Is porn defining the masculinity of younger generations? And if so, are we supposed to get along with it?

[LaCarriBradshow @holacorazon5]

Not enough with the struggling dating scene of the 2020´s, comes a greater fear: to be disliked and ghosted upon the first encounter. When it comes to dating, what draws the line on 𝘤𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘦 behavior?

[LaCarriBradshow @holacorazon5]

The Big 4: Ghosting, Lovebombing, Breadcrumbing and Orbiting, are taking over. I spoke to my friend Miranda about the legal sustent upon this menace and is still a grey ground. Is social media the new arena for the battle of the sexes? And if so, wich side is the winning one?

[LaCarriBradshow @holacorazon5]

In the early days, people wrote letters or waited hours for a phonecall from their lovers. Now, in our modern world where everything seems to be dictated by the instantaneus social-media-time, i wonder, when everything is moving faster, how long should it take to forget an ex?

[LaCarriBradshow @holacorazon5]

In a world where women look up to models like Kate Moss and men to Adonises like David Beckham, where we try to look exactly like them even in the most private aspects, i couldn't help but wonder...are good looking men good-in-bed?