High af. As a touch deprived child it took me so long to realize my dog just wants me to pet him for no reason sometimes. I’m like you are fed, housed, and appear to be fully functioning. Why r u in my face. I had not accounted for the rest of love. Love to me was only surviving.
if someone you “love” was experiencing immense pain, illness, major life changes, major traumas, was suicidal & withdrawn as a result but still doing their best to continue showing up, & you make it about you + everything you’re “not getting” from them you’re probably an asshole