It kills me inside that, bc of Ilya’s reputation, people are going to spend all their time saying Shane deserved someone better, that Ilya was a slut, that Ilya was rude, abrasive, and always picking fights. Imagine having to listen to literally everyone telling you that you’re not good enough for the man you love
there’s a lot of interesting discussion to be had about the fact that david and yuna ARE good parents but that they also were responsible for a lot of the pressure put onto shane that resulted in him being so repressed and those two facts can co-exist