My therapist said, “I've noticed that people who grew up in families where no one apologized after disagreements and would just let time pass instead of resolving things often become anxious adults who over-explain, over-communicate, and feel uneasy until things are settled.”
I definitely don’t think people talk enough about just how MEAN depression makes you. When everything feels pointless and stupid and awful and overwhelming, when you’re prepared to expect the worst from people, you hate everyone and everything so much
Cheating is a character flaw and I wish people weren’t so forgiving about it. It shows a willingness to deceive, to prioritize short-term desire over integrity, and to disregard the trust someone else has placed in them.
Disgusting.
I reallyyyyy cannot be with somebody who’s dismissive of my feelings ! I understand you may not agree, understand or that it may not even be of the same importance to you BUT… do NOT be dismissive of whatever it is I’m feeling ! That’s a HUGE pet peeve !
unpopular opinion: abandoning your friend who's in an abusive relationship because you need to "protect your energy" is incredibly selfish and EXACTLY what the abuser relies on.
Acepten que ustedes también han sido malos amigos en algún momento de sus vidas, que se equivocaron, lo importante es aprender de eso y no repetirlo, dejen de hacerse las víctimas y decir que todo el mundo es malo menos ustedes, maduren.
Nobody likes you when you're depressed.
Plain and simple. We can talk all day about mental health and how important it is, but the moment you are depressed, people start to distance themselves. They see you as negative, a burden, and someone too heavy to handle.
people think depression means your sad and crying all the time. depression for me is being stuck in a twilight zone. i can't think , i don't respond to things , nothing is interesting , i just feel empty. not sad , just blank. i have a lot of days like this and they are hard .
the thought of me having to start over, getting to know somebody, them seeing my body, meeting my family etc makes me want to just stay single forever 😭like i’m tired of temporary situations