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That's to say people who blame victims like this are why they don't speak out about their abuse as much. People who blame victims, hiding behind their apathy and detachment as just a bystander on the internet.
This isn't just relationship issues. This is spreading awareness of a repeat offender of man (of whom I've had the misfortune of dealing with for years) who constantly engages in self-victimizing, manipulative and downright creepy behavior.
If you find Malachi at fault here, you're apart of the greater issue at hand when it comes to victims speaking out on this, likely hiding behind the detachment of not knowing those involved.
@fruitpuncherz and reluctant yes only. They are willing to guilt, twist words, and do anything they can to turn a no into a reluctant yes.
If you genuinely think just a "no" would've worked, you're far too inept to even be partaking in a discussion regarding this topic at all.
@fruitpuncherz i saw someone genuinely pull the "you could've said no" argument and felt my stomach do a fucking frontflip
That's not how situations like these work. Abusers, manipulaters, and those who are willing to coerce and groom you into things don't take "no", they take reluctant yes-
@richardvonnric1@loonzium "if" and "when", but never is.
the worst kind of person is one who doesn't know when to stop. the kind who always persists to get that last word. you're trying to preach to a choir who has lost faith in you.
Don't make a doc. Don't make a response. Your words have hurt enough.
@richardvonnric1@hero18633141@azureskips My personal take is that you stopped doing things right about two years ago. A response document isn't exactly the best choice, either.
Don't you think it's disrespectful to fish for that last word against someone you've hurt enough by being so stubbornly insistent?
@SuperBearNeo @RDotLoon @Set2Seth To continue even further, do you not already have three other dramas you are entrenched within? Do you not have a job? Do you not have any physical excercise? Any hygiene? Food? Hydration? I can list off innumerable better things to focus on than this, OR watching loli shit!
@SuperBearNeo @RDotLoon @Set2Seth To continue: If you are truly in the right as you so firmly believe, to which I disagree I might add, why do you stoop to the same lows you accuse them of doing?
Is it for any real purpose beyond seeking out drama, to seek out new shit to stir up?