Hools Kay (they/them)

Asexual Activist | Actor | Comedian | Writer | Creator of Aced It, @choicedrink, @basic_baes and @femaletherweb

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

Holy mother forking shirtballs https://t.co/FhNnKGfRVF #acedit #asexualrepresentation

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

So I just learned that if you don't know something you can ask someone. You don't have to stew in your brain and think your an absolute idiot for not knowing everyone and then rot in your bed for days. Huh. #im32

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

Watching Arcane makes me want to play LOL but then I remember the kinds of people who play LOL

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

Okay. I finally bought a carabiner so I can be legally gay.

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

I've been doing the 'pretend they don't exist' thing and it's quite liberating.

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

I'm like pretty done with everything right now. And sure a lot is going on. And sure I'm depressed. But it's just the start of seasonal depression and I don't know if my brain can go another year or whatever.
Anyway, cats are great, AMIRIGHT!?

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

There is something nice about telling a room of people my pronouns and having it used without question.

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

I had a reddit comment get 2K upvotes and I am afraid of it going to my head so I will be abstaining from anymore posting.

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

For the first time in... I dunno 8 years... I have been cast in a musical. So I guess that's something neat.

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

I literally say 'I dunno maybe one day I'll be a 60 year old gay man (cause gender is also fluid) who loves bears'.
Asexuality is the most accurate representation of who I am now, but humans are constantly changing and adapting.

[Dr. Canton Winer @CantonWiner]

Sexuality can be fluid, meaning it can change over time.

This is true of asexuality too.

You don’t need to be “born this way” for your asexuality—or any other sexuality—to be valid.

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

I'd love to go on the circle and catfish as not asexual just to really flip the script for the audience to be like... wait how come they're so good at the flirt game? Bruh, a life time of research in a sex obsessed world? I GOT this.

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

The only thing I can actually imagine going back to school for (and having massive debt from) is film so I think I have a problem

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

I think the real reason I don't hold onto things is that when I was a kid I was told that saving beanie babies would make me a millionaire and it didn't and so what's the point?

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

People confused hearing someone has covid (STILL!? What do you mean), is just a huge sign that our society is doomed....

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

Someone at a queer event just recognized me from my solo show 5 years ago and I want to die now.
Don't worry. It's good die.
That's a thing, right?

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

Realizing now that 'good' and 'bad' are mostly subjective terms.

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

An older woman on my train ride was reading a book about parents with gender queer children and it warmed my lil baby gay heart.

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

Does anyone else forget straight people exist. Like I'll listen to a story and then find out it's about a hetero couple and go 'oooooh right. Straight people'.

[Hools Kay (they/them) @hookslaybae]

I've been in a LD relationship for 5.5 yrs. It is great for us. And honestly makes our time together so much more special. I will also never get over the moment of seeing him time and time again when I walk off the train 🥰

[GFB @maybegabrielle]

“they’re doing transgender surgeries on illegal aliens” is just the plot of The Rocky Horror Picture Show