Having to fight for everything in life will have you SO traumatised man, you pray, wait and work while others just get it and by the time it comes to you usune anxiety yokuthi it’s too good to be true 😩 Mina angazi asifi ngani siphume kulento
I think we need to extend grace in situations where we think we are ready to be in relationships, get into them and realise ah ah I’m still not ready. I think it’s okay to feel that way or ngiToxic?
Choosing your partner means choosing the person who will AID in breaking generational curses and trauma.
Not create new ones or exacerbate the already existing ones.
I applaud people who try again. We never really talk about the strength required to get back up again. People are just expected to bounce back. If you see someone struggling to try again, give them a hand. They really need it.