this was definitely part of peak lesbian flagging in the 2010s i remember it all too well my ex who identified as a lesbian at the time all she wore was flannels 💀
oh my god YES THANK U i had some in high school before i started embracing my femininity & was trying too hard to flag & was like “well how well people know if i dress feminine 🥺” as a baby gay
does anyone else remember when flannels were considered a super major part of lesbian signaling/culture? like, essentially on the same level as the carabiner? it’s so completely disappeared from the culture at this point that I feel like I hallucinated it or something
as someone from tennessee & has had family members pass away, the process here doesn’t usually take forever like it does other places 😭 my grandfather who was in california they couldn’t do his funeral for weeks bc the paperwork took forever to process lol