It was the happiest moment of my life when you proposed to me, until now anyway. I couldn't believe you wanted to be with me as I much as I wanted to be with you.
I do want you to keep being you, but the only one who gets to decide who that is, is you. You choose who you are today. You get to choose who you are tomorrow. That's okay with me.
But now... everything is better. With me, and my dad, and my mom, and between the two of us. So, when I remember that time, it's not the point that my life was over.
Did I ever tell you about the person who tried to donate a giant bear figure? And I mean giant. It was something used in their own store but eventually they didn't need it anymore.