you disrespect yourself when you beg someone for BARE MINIMUM things like love, attention, respect, affection, support, reciprocation. Don't do that sht again.
Sama banget. Drained banget ketemu orang kayak gini apalagi pas berantem/deeptalk. Pernah soalnya pacaran lama sama orang yang begini. Bertahun tahun coba memaklumi, banyak hal pun aku maklumi. Tapi emang tolol aja orangnya dan narsis mentok gak mau salah + minim literasi. Kapok.
In this economy dapet makanan dengan disc 50% di online tuh josjis banget. Gak perlu ke mall, gak perlu bayar parkir dan bensin. Aku senang dapet diskonan. 🥰
And it often leaves behind deep emotional scars. Healing from that kind of trauma is the hardest part. So there’s nothing wrong with setting boundaries until you’re absolutely sure, or simply saving some of that love for yourself.
When it comes to the right person, there’s nothing wrong with loving someone that deeply because that kind of love will surely be reciprocated. The problem is, so much genuine and unconditional love ends up being given to the wrong person.