hardest pill i swallowed this year was learning that no matter how good you could be to someone‚ no matter how much you love them‚ they can & they will turn their back on you and there’s absolutely nothing you can do but suck it up & keep moving forward.
I’m not embarrassed about anything I went through. What may be “tea” for you, is a testimony for me. If you’re gonna talk about what broke me, invite me to the table so I can tell you what God did with the pieces. 🤍
Nobody talks about how bad it fucks your mind up witnessing someone’s true colors that you got love for…Like wait, this really you?????? This been u this whole time??? ON WHOO?😂
Respectfully, I don’t go above and beyond for people anymore. I meet you as far as you meet me. I speak to you as much as you speak to me. I include you as much as you include me. Cause I’m done with half ass friendships and relationships.
when you’ve been in survival mode your whole life due to trauma that made you feel like you couldn’t rely on anyone but yourself… it can be a struggle to let people in. it looks like leaving before you are left & like sabotaging relationships before they have a chance to begin.
Normalize deleting people off your social media accounts that don’t clap for you, won’t talk to you, has secret animosity towards you, or don’t like you. It’s not being petty or problematic, it’s removing anything disrupting your peace ✌🏼