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and if love ever finds me again, i hope it's with someone who thinks about how their actions affect me,someone who considers my feelings before making choices and values my peace as much as their own because I'm not here to survive love again, I'm here to finally live it
yk what's really attractive?? a secure man with no sneaky stuff, no extra females, no inconsistency, no drama, a man who is expressive about his feelings for you, gentle with u, makes u feel safe, a man who still has the same level of respect and love during bad terms...Top tier.
being a girl is wanting to save money but also wanting your hair done, nails done, gym membership, skincare, cute outfits, and a little treat every day 😭
I owe myself the deepest apology,
for allowing someone to disturb my peace and take me for granted. I stayed too long, gave too much, and ignored the way it was hurting me. I kept being understanding even when my feelings were not considered. I stayed quiet to keep the peace while slowly losing my own. I made excuses for people who kept disappointing me. But I'm finally learning that my peace matters too. I shouldn't have to beg for care, effort, or respect. Choosing myself doesn't make me selfish. Walking away from what hurts me doesn't make me cold. I deserve people who value me the same way I value them. From now on, I want to protect my heart, my energy, and my peace more.
I'm not toxic. I'm reactive. There's a person somewhere calling me difficult, and they're leaving out the part where they pushed every boundary I set, ignored every signal I gave, and then acted shocked when I finally stopped being gentle about it.
I think one of the most underrated relationship green flags is a man who genuinely enjoys making his wife's life easier. Not because she asked. Not because he's keeping score. Because he loves her. He notices the dishes piling up and helps.
He sees she's overwhelmed and steps in. He takes something off her plate simply because he knows she's carrying a lot. And honestly? That's romantic. Not because it's grand. Because it's thoughtful. Love isn't always flowers and vacations.
I texted him, "How was your day today?" and he sent me a 10-minute voice note telling me everything.
And that basically sums up the kind of person I want by my side. Stop normalizing disinterest.
the hardest thing I've learned this year is that you can never force someone to communicate and work things out. you can't beg someone to see that you're worth fighting for and i stand by that now
Normalize not forcing your importance in someone's life. Let people do what they want so you can see what they'd rather do. If someone doesn't see the value in having you by their side, don’t try to convince them.
i love a man that genuinely fw me all day, everyday checking in, calling, texting, face time, pulling up...i can handle my own, but it's something special about a man who makes you feel wanted & thought about ♡
Women lose sexual interest when they're emotionally disappointed, and I’m not going to argue about that. A woman can love you deeply, stay loyal, support you through hard times, and still slowly disconnect the moment she feels unheard, unappreciated, or emotionally neglected. Most people think attraction disappears because of looks, time, or routine, but emotional disappointment is what quietly changes everything.