Somewhere in your 20s or 30s you'll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop, heal from what broke you, live in your own space, reconnect with your discipline, and learn to love yourself again. It's very important that you see that journey through.
romanticize your life, take pretty pictures, feel like the main character, light up a candle, read books, go for a walk, dance to your favorite music, buy yourself presents, do whatever you want, be happy - this is your life, don't let anyone take it from you
Ibaratnya kalo lagi olahraga pertama kali ya. Badan pegel semua, ngerasa lemah padahal you’re getting stronger than before.
Di segala hal, when you’re getting better it feels like you’re getting worse. Merasa bodoh krn banyak gak tau. Perasaan bodoh dibutuhin di proses belajar.
this mindset will ruin u. that part of her life is not your burden to carry, it's her job to fix her shit and you shouldn't feel sorry for the people who hurt you if you want to make it out of there with even the tiniest sliver of sanity
one of my friends interpreted the ayah ‘if you’re grateful, i will increase you’ (14:7) as this. not only will Allah literally increase you, the depth of your perception and appreciation for the good in your life also increases