[HAPPY HALLOWEEN 2026]
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Benny went on a halloween harvest this year WHILE it was a blood moon? yeah youre asking to be possessed by a hundred-year-old ghost who disguised themselves as a pumpkin..
But hey at least he's happy being cum-filled balls for the Pumpking~
@SensibleLets It depends on the cage. Some cages like the Kink3D cages are easy and can be cleaned while locked. If you lose your key and you have a more closed off cage like a Holy Trainer, you can’t clean it, which will cause an infection.
#Locktober Tips:
If a dom asks for your keys right away on your first meeting, that is a big 🚩
While the idea of permanent #chastity might seem fun, it won’t be when you have to go to the doctor for an infection. Always vet your doms first and have a backup key just in case.
#Sub Tip:
To the subs who have been hurt without consent, know that you did not deserve it. If a #dom doesn’t have the compassion or courage to fix their mistakes, then they were never worth it. Love yourself 💕
#BDSM
#Dom / #Sub tip:
There are those who function as real doms and subs, then there are those who just play pretend. The pretenders often lack an understanding of Safe Sane Consensual/ Risk Aware Consensual Kink ( SSC/RACK) or simply choose to ignore these principals. Avoid them.
15 days down and 16 days to go! (for those of you who aren’t long term locked 😉)
Good luck with whatever your lock goals may be for this month #Locktober participants! 🔐
A submissive who doesn't understand his own limits can create problems he never intended.
He agrees to something before thinking it through !
Assumes he will be fine because he wants to please her...
Then discovers he was less prepared than he believed !
Now he's struggling to explain himself...
She may feel misled...
& something that began with good intentions becomes a problem neither expected...
Wanting to please your Domme does not mean you have to say yes before you understand what you're agreeing to.
A responsible yes begins with knowing what your yes actually means
There are exceptions to this rule and I’m sure there are examples of successful online power dynamics, however due to a lack of personal connection, they become much harder to sustain without commitment from both sides.
The trouble with strictly online #dom / #sub relationships, especially ones that are in groups, is that they often foster apathy, disattachment, and resentment in all parties. It is best for subs not to become too attached to an online dom and focus on real life connections.
Last week I gave advice to doms, this week I want to help the subs. As a #sub you are obligated to communicate discomfort to your #dom , because doms are not mind readers. If you communicate and your dom still doesn’t respect your boundaries, that is on them and not you! #BDSM
I love being an evil Dom, I do.
but sometimes its fun to share the work others have done.
show me how corruptible you are servants~
let me appreciate the art others make of your minds~
(and with recent events, possibly accounts~)