When you know YOUR power and standards, you approach situations differently. If you’re moving with the spirit of lack and desperation, those are the results you will yield. Simple maffs.
How do some women get bfs SO EASILY?? I genuinely don’t understand. And ppl can say it’s luck all they want but I s2g I have been had the theory that there are some women who are just in the “bf inner circle”™️ and some who aren’t. Theres all these little unspoken rules & maneuvers that some of us just aren’t privy to.
I think when you’re in a “me season” you’re allowed to be selfish for all the times you weren’t, but it’s an extreme like everything else. Eventually the scales will find their balance again.
Some of the funniest things I’ve experienced in this life is watching someone struggle with how much they dislike me but aren’t brave enough to confront me. Like damn, free yourself 😭
Whenever I start doing that thing again where I’m more focused on someone else than myself, I get rudely reminded of where my energy should be directed instead.