My friend said the happiness he gets from being married to his wife equates to the satisfaction people get from financial security when they look at their bank account. He is not even rich but he is very content and very happy. I've known him for over a decade and his financial situation has never affected his mood or relationship. Very decent fellow.
One day he was with me what she called his wife and told her he is feeling very generous and she should ask for anything. This woman said "popcorn" and he laughed. He told her that your husband is feeling generous and you are asking for popcorn. She said, "but that is what I want na. Buy me popcorn."
I just smiled and shook my head because I know many rich people who do not have what he has.
You can be as stoic as you want but if you stay despite her โI am going to sabotage as much as possible my relationship to see if I can trust he wonโt leave meโ, you are telling her you are a conflict avoiding bitch.
If we date, donโt stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.
speak up!! The same people will attack those who do.
When more voices join in, the message becomes impossible to ignore. But when only a few people are left speaking, it can never be loud enough.
Stop shutting people down for useless reasons. If you truly want change, encourage more people to use their voices, not fewer.
I am a British, Nigerian yes but Iโve always cared about Nigeria and anybody that has followed my career can vouch for that. I have houses in Nigeria, I want to take my kids home to a safe country just like we travel the rest of the world. Why should I not speak up about what is happening in my homeland?
If it is on her status not my DM, she is fishing for external compliments, not mine. The other guy can go ahead. After all, the picture is posted for everyone to compliment.