we are in a cowardice epidemic. people avoid making any decisions at all. decisions are commitment and commitment requires the bravery to take responsibility for your desires. they would rather live in a state of possibility and ‘potential’ than run the risk of being wrong.
i love this woman so much i could cry, white ppl never think abt this kind of thing but ive thought abt this countless times, its the reason they falsely believe black ppl (esp women n children) have a higher pain tolerance