that scene in the chi episode where the men had a group meeting just to be vulnerable and speak their truth was so refreshing to watch. all men (especially black men) deserve the safe space to just release everything theyve been holding in.
R&B hasn’t gone anywhere, but we do need more “I feel so safe with you” R&B, more “it’s just a really nice day out & I’m happy” R&B. More “play this at the wedding reception” R&B. Just more celebratory tunes in general. Joy R&B, if you will.
relationships centered around obligation and routine(s) seem miserable and disingenuous. i don’t want nobody commenting on all of my pics out of a sense of duty. 🥴 show me love because YOU desire to.
dissecting disney shows >
i’ve never paid attention to how carey would sleep on the couch so that zack & cody could sleep comfortably in the only bedroom they had. the things mothers do… 🥹