My "I love you" is different. I ask if you've eaten, tell you to drive safely, hug you a little tighter, stare a little longer, listen when you speak. I compromise, I sacrifice. I provide my time, energy, & effort. Don't doubt my love just because you don't hear the exact words.
People can show you how to do something the same way they did it but there are so many other ways to do a lot of things. That’s why it’s important to pray, ask God for Guidance, and really get in tune with yourself and figure out which way works for you.