I’m in a real season of detachment right now… one where my peace, boundaries, and how I’m treated matter more than keeping people around. So be mindful of how you speak to me and how you show up for me…family, friends, relationships, all of it. I’m no longer a people pleaser, forcing connections, explaining disrespect, or staying just to keep the peace. If the energy changes, I’ll distance myself.
& the more time I spend without something, the easier it becomes to live without it. I adjust, I accept, I detach, and eventually I’m okay with letting it go. What people don’t see is how much I battle with myself before I finally walk away. But once I do, there’s no doubling back. I’ve made peace with the loss, and I’m not going back to what cost me my peace. When I’m done, I’m done. 💯
To every ngga that broke a good woman down then walked around like SHE was the problem… keep living. Life got a slick way of putting you in the exact position you had somebody else in. One day you gone be the one overthinking, losing sleep, checking phones and wondering why somebody you love keep playing in your face. Karma don’t forget addresses.
I really gave everyone so many fair chances before I said fuck them, and however they may rewrite the story is however they may rewrite it. But if you know me I will never give up on you, just not about to keep taking disrespect from someone who claims they love me.
Situations put me back in my old ways. I hate that. I’ve worked so hard to become a better me, a softer me, a more emotional intelligent me. I don’t need nobody coming in my habitat abusing my old habits, bc deep down i’m not her anymore.
I had a real talk with myself the other day & I came to the conclusion, although men are horrible. I deadass OVERLY did too much & set expectations for men who never said nor acted like they ever liked me but refused to see it & kept pressing the issue & that is 100% on me.
i take EVERYTHING as a sign from God in life. any small inconvenience. like maybe I didn't need to go to this place, maybe I don't need this person in my life, that job may not be for me, and maybe this is saving me from something only GOD can see. no loses, forever lessons 😌