Don't sacrifice your entire present for a future version of yourself you can't even predict. What you want at 20 won't be exactly what you want at 30, and what you want at 30 may look completely different at 60. Enjoy the things that matter to you now while still building something your future self will thank you for. Don't become a slave to instant gratification, but don't turn your whole life into a waiting room either. Live now. Build for later. Do both.
Don't sacrifice your entire present for a future version of yourself you can't even predict. What you want at 20 won't be exactly what you want at 30, and what you want at 30 may look completely different at 60. Enjoy the things that matter to you now while still building something your future self will thank you for. Don't become a slave to instant gratification, but don't turn your whole life into a waiting room either. Live now. Build for later. Do both.
Ages 21 to 35 can be tough: You’re dealing with your parents getting older, fewer friends, career stress and self-doubt. Stay strong. You’ve got this bro.
You're a man:
Stop worrying about your looks.
- Hit the gym.
- Get a clean hair cut.
- Buy simple, well-fitting clothes.
Focus more on building your confidence
The day you stop putting everyone on a pedestal is the day conversations become easy.
You're not being judged.
You're just meeting another human.
See where it goes.
Men,
Always remember sex is cheap, and anyone can get it.
Don't settle with low a value woman who has nothing to offer.
The goal is to settle with a woman of virtue and dignity
Woman who has a good reputation
Choose a good woman for your children.
Man to man
• Get filthy rich when young
• Stay fit
• Buy 10,000+ acres of land
• Take over 7+ cities with businesses
• Horses in the stable
• Learn how to shoot
• Have a professional fight
• Raise 20+ children
• Live in a cabin in the woods.
Pure happiness for you.
You've gotta be more afraid of wasting your life than embarrassing yourself. Embarrassment fades in days. The memory of something cringe disappears faster than you think and nobody is replaying it as much as you are. But a wasted life does not fade. The chances you never took, the things you never said, the version of yourself you never became because you were too worried about how it looked - that sits with you. Flip the fear. The embarrassment was never the real danger. Staying small was.