staying in a relationship just because you love someone is not worth it. love is not all you need. respect is what you need. time is what you need. reassurance is what you need. happiness is what you need. a bestfriend is what you need
A girl on tik tok just said "I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect" and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
I hate break ups. I struggle with letting people go and the concept of dating only to break up later is very strange to me. I'd rather not start the relationship at all so that I don't have to deal with a loss.