Rage bait abi?
Because wdym by adultery and 'slept with' in a conversation about a woman that was kidnapped??
Omo, ask for Twitter handle before you start talking to anyone o
he’s not wrong tho. he just said 80% of nigerian men’s mind.
no sane man would accept his wife back if she slept with bandits. it is adultery and grounds for divorce, so i don’t see any reason of paying the ransom
You should have things you don't do, places you don't go to, substances you don't take, words you don't say
By all means, have Principles and Standards.
My father is not Otedola
But my mother never lifted a finger to work during any of her pregnancies.
She is still a size 8 at 67+ because daddy keeps funding her healthy feeding
I grew up eating veggies like Broccoli, kale, cauliflower, zucchini, radishes etc because my father could afford paying for them to be brought fresh from Jos for his wife monthly.
My mom grows berries, custard apples and other exotic fruits at home because her husband could afford a house with enough land for her horticultural garden and is building her a bigger house with even more land for gardening
If I say I want a man with my father’s money A LOT of you in this generation won’t be able to afford 1% of the comfort he gave and still gives my mom.
I eat salads, drink green teas constantly and I know how expensive they are. The average Nigerian man cannot daily pay 12k for breakfast and dinner salad (I am doing this for myself as a single woman because I grew up eating this way).
Otedola is far, middle income fathers exist and a lot of you small boys still can’t afford the things our middle class fathers can afford but keep talking.
This Temi Otedola pregnancy debate exposes how little respect some of you hold for your wives.
The same woman who worked throughout her pregnancy so you dont have to carry the whole financial burden alone.
Same woman who you couldn’t provide the things mr Easy provided for his wife but she never complained. You can’t even provide the quality of health care Temi has🤦🏽♀️
How many of you can afford gym membership for their wives much more home gym?
The culture around creative collaboration has really changed.
When I started out in makeup, a bunch of us would get together and do shoots for no reason other than to have things to show people. We’d get a photographer, someone who needed clothes, a model trying to be a model, a hair stylist if we could find one and whoever else.
You’d shoot in someone’s house and then go out and say “I did this shoot for this brand” but we know it’s just five broke creatives. Built up an amazing portfolio that way.
Lately, I’m watching conversations on here with young creatives and they all wanna be paid (often unreasonably high) for work they haven’t actually practiced even when it’s their fellow creative at the same stage of life asking.
It doesn’t help that with how APC has destroyed the economy, everyone is basically a gig worker.
Young creatives need to go back to artistic collaborations with their peers; without expecting immediate renumeration. A few established people might take a chance on you with no portfolio but most won't.
i love speaking with people who are more intelligent in a certain field than i am. it’s just great to sit back and listen to somebody educate you on things they’re passionate about.
As independent as i am, i love to be babied 🥺. Acts of service are how i feel loved. I don't care about money, just lighten my load. I'm too prideful to ask for help 😭, but when you take the initiative to take things off my plate, i kno you really see me 🤎