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[coco @iamcoco05]

Detachment isn't absence, it's restraint. You still care, still notice, still remember the dates and the details. But you silence the urge to reach out, hold back the words, let the distance stay. It’s not that you've stopped feeling, it's just that you've stopped acting on it.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

a girl on tiktok said “detachment is crazy because you’ll still care. still remember their birthday. still hope they’re okay. you just stop showing it” and that’s real shit.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

and all of a sudden... it hit me again, we’ve spent 43% of the year and i’ve not hit any of my goals yet.

[coco @iamcoco05]

@TWOTIMESABITCH Mannnn lmaooo that self reflection gets so loud when someone else is in the picture

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

you never realize how much you need new underwear until you start dating someone.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

getting older in your 20’s is like aging backwards quite frankly. you realize you are so young and know nothing

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

it doesn’t matter how bizarre your situation is. somebody on reddit already been there, done that.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

People who wash their lunch container at work before taking it home are on a whole different level of having their life together.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

men who kiss your forehead or hand out of nowhere are actual angels on earth

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

you know what’s crazy? i don’t even be mad for real. i just be trying to figure out if i’m tripping or acting weird for real. cus every time i give somebody a benefit of the doubt, they prove why i shouldn’t have in the first place. i’m tired of relearning the same lesson bitch

[coco @iamcoco05]

@TWOTIMESABITCH felt this

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

i’ve been so quiet about my life lately cus every time i open up, people either take it the wrong way or use it against me. so, yeah, i’m chilling and minding my own business. i ain’t no fucked up person. i’m just done giving people access to my life.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

black women is God’s created creation ever.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

being included in a family that is not yours feels so: ❤️‍🩹 ❤️‍🩹 ❤️‍🩹

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

in the end, promises are just words.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

unfortunately i could never be nonchalant because i am not well in the head and also my soul is on fire

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

having men be attracted to you is very regular, having someone be invested in all aspects of you is different

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

unfortunately they’re not always gonna be brave enough to tell you they are no longer vibing with you,sometimes you just have to read the energies and remove yourself from the equation.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

i hate arguing now. i realized that it’s really a turn off for me. i like equal accountability and no pointing fingers and easy solutions. all that other stuff be having my head hurting. like bro forget it lmao you right just leave me alone

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

a sign that your man loves you is that he loves it when you relax for hours and hours. he doesn’t mind at all when you’re being unproductive. he loves it when you sleep as much as you want, and only wake up to spend time with him and to do your princess things

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

i can't stress how important it is to
know who you are as a person because people will literally try to project their insecurities and preconceived notions onto you unprovoked.

[COCO @TWOTIMESABITCH]

if you broke my trust & i loved you enough to let you back in & allow you to rebuild my trust again...only for you to leave me hanging & call me crazy for wanting reassurance and maybe a lil extra effort to gain back the security you took away... you're the worst type of person.