Detachment isn't absence, it's restraint. You still care, still notice, still remember the dates and the details. But you silence the urge to reach out, hold back the words, let the distance stay. It’s not that you've stopped feeling, it's just that you've stopped acting on it.
a girl on tiktok said “detachment is crazy because you’ll still care. still remember their birthday. still hope they’re okay. you just stop showing it” and that’s real shit.
you know what’s crazy? i don’t even be mad for real. i just be trying to figure out if i’m tripping or acting weird for real. cus every time i give somebody a benefit of the doubt, they prove why i shouldn’t have in the first place. i’m tired of relearning the same lesson bitch
i’ve been so quiet about my life lately cus every time i open up, people either take it the wrong way or use it against me. so, yeah, i’m chilling and minding my own business. i ain’t no fucked up person. i’m just done giving people access to my life.
unfortunately they’re not always gonna be brave enough to tell you they are no longer vibing with you,sometimes you just have to read the energies and remove yourself from the equation.
i hate arguing now. i realized that it’s really a turn off for me. i like equal accountability and no pointing fingers and easy solutions. all that other stuff be having my head hurting. like bro forget it lmao you right just leave me alone
a sign that your man loves you is that he loves it when you relax for hours and hours. he doesn’t mind at all when you’re being unproductive. he loves it when you sleep as much as you want, and only wake up to spend time with him and to do your princess things
i can't stress how important it is to
know who you are as a person because people will literally try to project their insecurities and preconceived notions onto you unprovoked.
if you broke my trust & i loved you enough to let you back in & allow you to rebuild my trust again...only for you to leave me hanging & call me crazy for wanting reassurance and maybe a lil extra effort to gain back the security you took away... you're the worst type of person.