We as women need to collectively talk about the behaviors we have that traumatize good men.
And before you say, “well, men traumatize us”we’re not talking about men right now. I’m talking to women. I’m around men, I have real conversations with them, and I’ve seen good men get traumatized by deeply broken women and we don’t talk about it enough. It’s alarming that we don’t call out these behaviors in other women. We only care when it’s a man we know.
She drops her car off for a detail and it’s absolute chaos. Trash, old food, papers, dolls, kids’ toys everywhere. The detailer pulls on gloves, takes a long swig of his soda, and gets to work.
As he digs through the mess, he starts finding cash. A lot of it.
And now the questions shift.
If she’s this unorganized with her car…
If she can lose that much money without noticing…
What else is slipping through the cracks?
Does the chaos stop at the vehicle, or does it spill into the rest of her life?
Is this just a messy car — or a sign of someone not paying attention to important things?
Sometimes what we ignore in small places tells a bigger story.
What do you think?