Saw the Ex Narc sister last night. Dealt with her accordingly. Said I was on a night out with my friend and didn't want it ruined by chatting crap. Off she went. #winning#narcissistsurvivor#narcissistabuse#stronger
Never think you were not good enough and the new supply is better. I feel sorry for her. In fact, I pity her. The mask eventually slips. I had a great support system around me.
#unbreakable#survivor#narcissistsurvivor#narcissistabuse
Cognitive dissonance. That is what it is called. I never knew this. This is why it's so hard to leave someone who is a narcissist. You feel like a Yoyo of emotions.
Thinking about the past. He was Jekyll and Hyde a lot of the time. His aggression was awful one minute then to "apologise", he would buy something to say sorry. It was a new dishwasher one day. Absolutely crazy when I think back. #narcissistabuse#freefromabuse
This was true in my case. I lost total respect for my NEX. He knew it, so he began to find his new supply. Which he did. I am forever grateful to her for taking him on. One day she will see what I see when his masks slips. #narcissistsurvivor#narcissistabuse#grateful#happier
Life is much better. I didn't realise how bad my life was. Looking back, it was so awful. Can't believe how much abuse I put up with. #survivor#narcissistsurvivor#neveragain
So thankful my dear friends, who had no idea about the abuse, were at my side when they heard him abuse me. Because of them, I believed in myself and packed his bag. #domesticabuse#narcissistsurvivor#narcissistabuse
So today is the first day I have heard lies which he has spread about me being the toxic person. Unbelievable but all in a narcissist's work. Water off a duck's back though now. #narcissistsurvivor#narcissistbehaviour
Just reflecting on things today. I had really bad anxiety over the years and my thoughts today are, "where has my anxiety gone?" It went out the door the day I chucked him out of it. #narcissistsurvivor#anxiety#domesticabuse