If you are married and want to stay faithful, please stay far away from ...
1 - Your ex or exes.
2 - Anyone you have been intimate with in the past.
3 - Anyone who likes you or is crushing on you.
4 - Anyone you are crushing on or who is your spec.
5 - Anyone who has attempted or is attempting to sleep with you.
6 - Anyone who flirts with you, whether playfully or seriously.
7 - Anyone you wouldn't feel comfortable talking to in front of your spouse.
8 - Anyone you find yourself hiding chats, calls, or meetings with.
9 -Anyone you daydream about romantically or sexually. You shouldn't be daydreaming about anyone apart from your spouse in the first place
10 - Anyone who tries to convince you that your marriage is a mistake.
11 - Anyone you have to lie to your spouse about seeing or talking to.
12 - Anyone who makes you compare them to your spouse in a "better" way.
13 - Anyone you have had emotional or sexual tension with before.
14 -Anyone who uses physical touch as a way of connecting with you.
15 -Anyone you would be embarrassed to introduce to your spouse because of the nature of your connection.
Faithfulness is not just about avoiding the act of cheating; it is about guarding your heart long before you are ever tempted.
The boundaries you set today are the walls that protect your marriage tomorrow.
Cheating does not start in the bedroom; it starts in the heart.
Protect your heart, and you will protect your marriage. I am rooting for you and your marriage
~ Dennis Agbeti
I don’t usually put mouth in online matters, but this particular issue involving Femi Adebayo’s wife is deeply sad.
One hard truth life keeps teaching us is this: words are irreversible. Once they leave your mouth, they can’t be unsaid, no matter how sincere the apology later becomes.
Anger happens. Pain happens. Feeling betrayed, unheard, or overwhelmed happens. But when emotions are high, wisdom must be higher. There are reasons professional marriage counsellors exist. Not every pain deserves a public audience, and not every grievance should be poured into the ears of a third party who cannot carry it responsibly.
Some things, once said, permanently alter the emotional safety of a marriage. You may forgive, but you can’t unknow what you now know. You may reconcile, but the innocence is gone.
Marriage is not sustained by love alone; it survives on restraint, discretion, and forgiveness. You will hurt your spouse. Your spouse will hurt you. That is unavoidable. What determines whether the marriage lives or dies is how those hurts are handled.
When you’re angry, don’t let hatred borrow your tongue. Don’t say things just to wound. Don’t speak from a place you can’t return from.
Sometimes, silence is not weakness—it’s protection. Sometimes, walking into a counsellor’s office is wiser than opening your mouth in the heat of pain.
Women especially, we must learn this: if you desire peace in your marriage, you must also desire discipline over your words.
Forgiveness keeps marriages standing, but wisdom keeps them whole.
PS:
If Allah wills that they come back stronger, it will happen. Nothing overrides His decree.
But let this be a lesson to us all: speaking about your marriage to a third party rarely ends well. What is said in pain can cause damage that’s hard to undo.
Protect your marriage with wisdom. Seek help where healing lives, not where opinions multiply.
Latifat Shamseddin-Giwa
HOW TO PUT PAYMENT NARRATION IN YOUR BANK TRANSFER IN 2026
Tax is mainly focused on taxable income and this taxable income is basically money paid to you in exchange for a particular service
So if you refuse to put the right payment narration, you may face some problems or even pay more, when filing your T A X Return
If you describe the payment narration correctly, you only pay tax when required... and nothing extra.
SIMPLE DESCRIPTIONS YOU CAN USE (LEGALLY)
1. When a Family member sends you money, they should write
"Gift / Family support" in the payment narration
2. When a Friend or anyone pays you back the money they owe you, tell them to write:
"Refund / Reimbursement"
3. When you move your own money to another account, write:
"Personal transfer/savings."
4. When someone lends you money, he or she should write:
"Loan received"
5. If you put your own money into a business, write:
"Capital contribution"
6. If you operate a POS and your customers want to make a transfer to you
They should write
POS transaction
7. You are a business owner and you sell things
Your customer should put narration like this
Payment for two cartons of Indomie
To be continued...
Ignorance of the law is no excuse
You know what time it is?
It's so close, we can smell it!!!
As you prepare for the Rapture, are you going empty handed?
Where are the souls you are greeting the Lord with?
The ministry of reconciliation was given to EVERY CHRISTIAN.
#RaptureReady#RaptureModeActivated
#FirstFlightGang
#YearOfCompleteness
To my special person;
I know i give you tough days, but know that i love you with all my heart, and i am doing everything to better myself for you. I can't promise you the world, but i promise you all of me.l promise to be yours and be by your side, no matter what