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Hi, I’m Pastor Margaret (Kaego). Pastor, Author & Blogger sharing stories of faith, women & wellness.
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She did everything right.
A pastor’s daughter. A bride-to-be.
Until one night changed everything.
#ADA — a story of faith, betrayal, and redemption.
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New in the world or not, the belief/fear that one is the opposite sex in some way is simply false. As a man, I’ll say you aren’t one of us and will never be. I don’t accept you as a man and never will.
Similarly, you can’t become an alien or a walrus or anything else you’re not despite how much surgery you get or hormones you take or clothes you wear or other fakery you engage in. And I wouldn’t accept you as any of those things, either, unless you tricked me. If it was walrus hunting season, you’d be off limits as not-a-walrus. Right?
Trans is a disorder of self perception and “the treatment” isn’t to indulge the fake self perception, it’s to come back to reality.
That you feel dysphoria when you’re not live-action-role-playing as a man doesn’t prove that the dysphoria is actually about being a woman. If you had species dysphoria, the cure would be to accept and embrace your humanity, not get crazy surgeries and implant alien body parts. Only if you were so mentally gone, so extremely mind-broken as to be unreachable, so twisted by lies and trauma as to be a perpetually hopeless object of pity, would it make sense for anyone to merely accept you were an alien and treat you as one forever. There would always be hope you could be healed and embrace your humanity again.
You have autogynephobia. You have a body rejection complex. You have a self-perception disorder. You need healing, not cooperation.
That you’re happy is doubtful. That’s the lie you need to tell yourself because if you aren’t happy now after insisting for a lifetime that the solution to your bad feelings is to pretend to be a man, then you’re really lost. It would be temporarily devastating on so many levels to allow yourself to believe you were wrong. It has to feel like a life-and-death thing for you to maintain your man-identity. Your ego could barely handle it at this point after doubling down on this lie over and over and over insisting on this false reality to yourself and everyone else for so long. After rejecting friends and family for not participating with you. After gaining so many allies/sycophants/co-deluded telling you what you want to hear. The humiliation and dysphoria then would be huge. But that would be *real*, and what you have now is fake, and you would eventually heal.
Your ongoing efforts to coerce the world to participate in your self-delusion are all the proof anyone needs to know you’re not really happy. That the term “misgender” even exists is proof that true happiness for trans people is most probably an illusion for them. If you’re happy pretending to be a man, why do you need anyone else to agree? Are you having trouble really believing it? Your happiness is a facade, and deep down you’ll always have this sickening, nagging doubt that you aren’t really a man and all this was just mental illness. Because it was, and is.
The emotional pressure trans people feel to experience happiness as the opposite sex has to be overwhelming—so enormous that it doesn’t surprise me detransitioning is rare (so far). You’re supposed to be happy and if you’re not, all the hope you’ve been tricked into having is lost. To detransition is to face a terrible disturbing dark tragedy that you were wrong all along, that you said and did bizarre and inappropriate things, and that you not only lied with your mouth but you *lived* a lie, embraced *being* a lie, lied long-term with your very body. Few people are strong enough to do that easily. Especially when a segment of society lies to and with them.
It takes more strength to realize one was wrong and is living a lie than to keep going and hope it all works out. But the *pain* of living a lie will continue, unless you really savage yourself to utter numbness, which is the opposite of thriving. The pain will continue because you’re not a man, you’ll never be a man, and the sooner you realize that and get to the deeper root of why you can’t adapt to accept your womanhood, the better for you in life.
A piece of advice for people less than 30 years( Most people didn't know this)
Please read this and share. Helpful tips and life saver in 2024
-Buy a Blood pressure machine
-Buy a sugar checking machine (Glucometer)
-Get an ECG of your heart (shows the electrical functioning of your Heart)
- Occasionally Try & See a Therapist (you're not mad, you're alive)
Once every 6 months or yearly check the Fat levels in your blood. You can do this with @MyItura from the comfort of your home
Always look at your urine and poo closely before flushing( says a lot about what's happening in your system)
Occasionally in a year get an Electrolyte, Urea and Creatinine shows your Kidney functions. I'll recommend @MyItura makes the most convenient and cheapest offers
If you're planning to marry , repeat your Genotype. Some people are just knowing they are carrying sickle cell trait from lab mistakes
Check your blood for HIV, Hepatitis B &C and get vaccinated if necessary
If you've been told you have an Ulcer and having recurrent pains, Get an endoscopy to look at it ( Like a Camera to view it) . It can be anything.
Trust me if at 20s you do this. This is the biggest investment for your Health. Some people are just realizing this in their 30s and 40s, 50s. For finance. Spread it over a year with @MyItura
Please share for someone
I want every single person (overwhelmingly, men) claiming feminists have been hateful during the gender wars to follow this link. Don't forget to look through all the pages. Now show us your evidence that gender critical women have behaved similarly.
https://t.co/0uzscTBEBR
As a Nigerian, we had to read Queen Primer, Student Companion, Ugo C Ugo, Brighter Grammar, First Aid in English.
When you were on the family desktop, you used Encarta, then Mavis Beacon Teaches Typing.
Then, when it was holidays, it was time to read the dictionary, Encyclopaedia Britannica, Guinness World Records, and various novels.
We didn’t do all that for basic words like “delve” “robust” to be called ChatGPT and AI words!
We will support Airpeace. We will fly Airpeace.
Regardless of the pricing wars, it is important for us that Airpeace stays in business so they can open up to more routes especially in N.A and Europe - consequently driving more pricing wars.
Airpeace needs to stay in business.
Personally, I love it when American racism toward Africans is loud, proud and unashamed.
Since there is no type of suffering that Africans will not cheerfully bear except that when their egos are directly challenged, I hope more of this continues to happen and becomes the norm.
It still amazes me that wanting safety and fairness for girls and women is your idea of hate. It still amazes me that people are cheering on a medical scandal, despite mounting evidence of harm. It still amazes me how cowardly and complicit so many, including you, have been.
Hi Paul,
Unfortunate greetings to you.
If and when I have business with Americans - I'm working with you and not for you. This isn't the corn fields of the 1700's.
You're not more educated than I am - do not have a mental edge, do not also have a stronger cultural positioning.
You're echoing the silent nuance that PaulG communicated yesterday - it has racist colourings all over.
It is the cultural arrogance, the persistent tomfoolery with blinding prejudice that stops you from seeing that there's an entire world outside the US.
Accept it. There are people academically stronger, more mentally fortified, better spoken, equally culturally positioned than you are.
You're not superior, Paul.
Once again,
Unfortunate wishes.
In one of my current numerous hats, I double as an oncopharmacological researcher with focus on grade IV brain tumors for a T1 European Institute. I work with them.
If I ever have business with John Hopkins tomorrow, I'm working "with", not "for".
You're too thickskulled to know the difference but that's not on me - that's a consequence of cognitive deficiency on your end.
Again, unfortunate wishes.