Your mother is ruining your relationship, if she tells you to be billing your boyfriend.
Or if she is discouraging you from seeing him because the last time you visited him, you returned with nothing.
Your mama too get longer throat and she's greedy.
End.
A man marries a wife for majorly 5 reasons.
1) to help him raise their children.
2) to satisfy his sexual needs.
3) to provide for & to protect her.
4) to guide & lead her.
5) to take good care of him especially at old age.
Both of them can do 1-4 very well, & to the best of their abilities.
But his wife may use just one mistake she doesn't want to forget, to deny him the 5th.
End.