Felicidades por tu gran éxito empresarial (perdón, tu boda)
A ver, alma caritativa y empresaria del año... Déjame ver si entendí bien tu brillante modelo de negocio: organizas una fiesta para celebrar tu matrimonio, eliges un menú carísimo que claramente no te alcanzaba para pagar, ¿y ahora resulta que tus amigos eran socios capitalistas obligados a financiarte el capricho?
Qué nivel de necesidad y de hambre hay que tener para ver a tus seres queridos como terminales bancarias con patas. Qué horror que te dieran un abrazo "seco" en lugar de un fajo de billetes húmedos, ¿verdad?
Ideas para tu "mensajito amable" (Por si te falta inspiración):
"Hola, Juan. Qué bonita la foto que nos tomamos, pero lamentablemente los recuerdos no pagan los langostinos que te tragaste. Me debes 100€. Quedo atenta a tu transferencia para no bloquearte de mi vida".
"¡Hola, tía! Qué linda tu sonrisa, pero fíjate que la sonrisa no cotiza en el banco. ¿Me pasas lo de tu cubierto o te lo difiero a 12 cuotas con interés?"
La cruda realidad (A ver si así despiertas):
El concepto de "Invitar": Viene del latín invitare, que significa que tú pagas. Una boda no es un concierto con venta de boletos ni una kermés para recaudar fondos para tu causa benéfica.
Tu presupuesto, tu problema: Si te faltan 2.500€, el error de cálculo no fue de tus invitados por no ser "decentes" (según tus estándares de tarifa mínima), fue tuyo por querer tirar la casa por la ventana con los bolsillos vacíos.
La que se está colgando eres tú: Organizar un evento para luego exigirle a los demás que paguen su derecho de piso es el acto más tacaño, hambreado y de mal gusto imaginable.
Mi recomendación: Paga la deuda de la fiesta que tú organizaste, cierra la boca y agradece que 95 personas te quieren lo suficiente como para ir a verte vestida de blanco.
Stop victimizing yourselves. If anyone is the victim here, it’s the six members who only wanted to continue doing what they love. Instead of supporting them, all you’ve done is disrespect them, tarnish their name, tear them down, and make everything harder for them. What’s actually ridiculous is how you keep acting like the wronged party when you are called out and publicly shamed, when in reality your actions for the past months have done nothing but hurt the members and damage their reputation. You don’t get to play the victim after contributing to the very situation that’s causing them harm and shame.
The worst part in all of this is that you don’t even seem to understand what you’ve done. You continue to paint yourselves as heroes and call your actions loyalty, as if that somehow excuses the damage you’ve caused. You praise yourselves for standing your ground, but refuse to acknowledge the consequences of your own behavior. You’ve become so convinced that you’re fighting for the right cause that you can’t even see how much harm you’ve inflicted on the members whom you are so loudly claiming to care about.
“But he mentioned he wanted to celebrate their 10th anniversary together”
Maybe his priorities changed.
“But he was excited about the tour”
And he was also excited about his solo projects his solo albums his own music too.
“But he told us he would stay with us”
He is still here and will still be here for fans, just not as a member of enhypen anymore. Why is that suddenly not enough for some of you?
“But he asked us to look forward to what’s new and watch them grow together “
Again priorities can change maybe he wanted to grow as a solo artist… you can look forward to it now ..
this is exactly what I mean.
Ot7 and boycotters hear one sentence from the past and treat it like proof that every feeling, decision, or direction a heeseung has later in life must stay frozen forever.
Humans are allowed to change.
Dreams are allowed to change.
Priorities are allowed to change.
He can genuinely mean one thing in that moment and later realize they want a different path for themselves. That does not automatically make them fake, forced, manipulated, or dishonest it’s make them HUMAN.
That is literally just life. It’s not black and white.. right and wrong.. didn’t you changed your mind once in your life ? Didn’t you have a moment where your goals has changed and your priorities shifted?
the saddest part is that instead of accepting reality, some “fans” are now projecting all of that hurt from heeseung depurate onto the six members who stayed and questioning every emotion, every performance, and every word they say.
At some point you either trust the members as human beings capable of making their own choices… or you don’t.
If you don’t… Please unstan. You guys are harming enhypen and heeseung and dehumanizing them !
“Y como ENGENE, seguimos su camino y ciertamente NO nuestras suposiciones. Así que o caminas con ENHYPEN en su realidad actual o te haces a un lado y dejas de distorsionarlos desde el margen.”
ABSOLUTE CINEMA 👏🏻
Ayer muchas decían que si ponen el fanchant en las pantallas no lo iban a hacer pero si los chicos hacen esto yo me pregunto, ¿Los van a ignorar o directamente harán el fanchant que ustedes quieren para hacerlos sentir incómodos?, Según son sus favs ¿Qué harán?
In 2015, Taylor Swift made Apple Music change its policy in under 24hrs. After revealing artists wouldn’t be paid during the 3-month free trial
She withheld 1989 from the platform, refusing to let it be free, and posted an open letter.
Apple reversed and agreed to pay artists.
YOU GUYS GENUINELY NEED TO STOP THIS MADNESS
🐈⬛ some of you guys dont care abt what the situation’s going on like right? some of you just keep saying 6 or 7. enhypen is what, enhypen is what. im okay, i actually dont care (abt the comments). enhypen is enhypen… i always try to ignore that so i’m okay but dont do that to other member’s birthday. im okay but please dont do that to others okay?… what if other members would feel depressed in this situation? im really scared for that so hopefully i dont want that happening in the future…
Enhypen no lo conformaba 1 solo miembro sino 6 más que tienen todo el derecho de seguir llevando ese nombre, porque por si se les olvida, ellos tambien construyeron el grupo por 5 años!!! Chicas por dios no pueden ser tan inmaduras. Ellos PUEDEN SER enhypen, porque son ENHYPEN
because he simply cannot. he’s in no position to be upset or speak on the members when he's the one who walked away and left them to clean up the mess tied to his own choices. let's be brutally honest, atp, the silence doesn’t come off as maturity, it is calculated image control.
¿Ahora si les importa Jay? ¿Ahora si les importa lo que dice? ¿AHORA SI LO VEN?
They're such bitches...
¿Donde mierda estaban cuando le cayeron por la fancall? ¿Donde estaban cuando le decian que forzaba su vocal y no cantaba bien? ¿Donde estaban cuando le dijeron idol de bajo rendimiento? ¿Donde estaban para sus proyectos de cumpleaños? ¿DONDE MIERDA ESTABAN CUANDO LE DECIAN QUE NI SE ESFORZARA POR QUE NO ERA HEESEUNG?
They're so hypocritical that I hate seeing you.
Ah pero como ahora dijo algo que encaja con su narrativa lo usaron a su conveniencia y ahora si todas aman a Jay.
En verdad saquen a Jay de sus asquerosas e hipocritas bocas por que no lo merecen.
enhypen only changing their layouts/pfp every new era/cb and the fact that they changed their layout now for the first time (even without cb), and them using the same outfit they wore in their melbourne performances (which was their first appearance as a six-member group), feels like they’re telling us that melbourne was their fresh start, redebut and a new beginning.
the members have always been so hardworking and determined in their work as idols, but their melbourne stage felt different. it was full of passion and a renewed sense of purpose, like they were proving something not just to fans, but to themselves. there was a certain intensity in the way they performed. they are more grounded, more united, and more confident.
especially after all the belittling they faced from their own fandom, their stage felt like a statement. there was this quiet confidence in the way they carried themselves, like they didn’t need to say anything because their performance already spoke for them. and it really felt like they were reclaiming their space, showing their growth, and reminding everyone who exactly they are.
and that's also the reason why the members are both subtly and obviously showing their excitement for their future activities.
but sadly, you are twisting and overanalyzing their actions, making them look like a child who don't have a personal decisions saying that they are controlled by their staffs (even tho they are so vocal that they make decisions for themselves), and making them look a liar everytime they release some contents or comments that contradicts your beliefs. as supposed-to-their-fan, you are supposed to support them, am I not right? but the way you all acting right now makes you seem more like antis than the actual antis themselves.
you let the people manipulates your mind and your emotions that you forgot the 6 members who stayed for you.
pero si lo tuvimos… un carta de heeseung y los miembros mostrando su apoyo en twitter pero ustedes de locas se pusieron a decir que LAS DOS COSAS fueron escritas con inteligencia artificial lol ahí está la diferencia, un fandom piensa en sus favs y el otro en ella mismas jajaj
Hs’s solo album is probably coming before most of the tour and before the group cb. Will you boycott bc it’s “seven or nothing”, or does that only apply to the other six members?
If the answer is no, you’re a hypocrite. If the answer is yes, you’re simply stupid. No boycott is going to reverse a decision that’s already been made and publicized by all parties involved.
All seven of them deserve support and the chance to be successful and fulfilled in their own paths, regardless if you agree with it or not. If you don’t want to give that, unstan and stop being a bitch online.
Lo que más coraje me da es que las engenes que llevamos rato acá nos hemos peleado con los MAMA año tras año y le hemos puesto mucho esfuerzo para que unas random vengan a querer hacer sus mamadas, neta no saben todo lo que ha costado
ahí está su boycott pedazo de ratas, ya salieron las predicciones de los mama, vieron como no hay forma de hacer boycott sin afectar a los chicos? ahora déjense de tonterías y si tan engenes son sigan apoyándolos, compren álbumes, hagan stream y voten
none of them jw, hs, jy, jk, sh, sn, or nk owe you a statement, an explanation or a reaction. not now not ever and remember being a fan does not give you access to their private thoughts or the right to demand anything from them they will speak if and when they choose to and that decision is theirs alone pls stop acting like you’re entitled to more. it’s not your place they already carry enough without people adding pressure and expectations on top of it.
respect their boundaries and know your limits 🙏🏻
“They were together for 6 years, of course none of them wanted this!” as if couples married for decades don’t fall out of love or get divorced. People change, goals and dreams can get unaligned. This is just how life is sometimes
just sad that the 6 members didnt received the same kindness and grace that y’all are giving him now. but instead they were bombarded with protest trucks,boycott, their actions were being overanalyzed, spamming their lives and posts with hashtags & just plainly disrespecting them