@KiDCuDi yo bro! ๐จโ๐ ๐ถ ๐งโโ๏ธ just dropped a new EP and one of the songs is mucho inspired by your Heaven at Nite. itโs called โmusic @ nightโ and is full of vibey lyrics/acoustic guitar n synths.
would be amazing if you checked it out ๐ค๐ sending more love your way legend โก๏ธ
you know that loading area w/ the cantina band in the star wars lego video game? ๐ฎ thatโs what airports feel like to me. hilariously random and intriguing alien life form interaction and transience ๐ฝ โ๏ธ ๐พ
@KiDCuDi ๐ ๐ก ๐ญ still one of the illest things iโve ever seen legend.
side note - have a new song on my upcoming EP that is mucho inspired by you and your song โHeaven at Niteโ. would mean the world if i could send it to you to vibe with before itโs released ๐ ๐งโ๐ cleveland fam ๐ค
In the back of a comedy club, a struggling comedian got a chance to talk to Jerry Seinfeld.
He said heโd been struggling and sacrificing for about 10 years to โmake itโ as a comedian. Approaching his 30s, he was worried heโd taken the wrong path.
Seinfeld gave him this advice:
โThis [pointing at the stage] is such a special thing,โ Seinfeld says. โThis has nothing to do with โmaking it.โโ
โBut did you ever stop and compare your life?โ the struggling comedian says. โI see my friends, and theyโre making a lot of money. Theyโre moving up. Theyโre all married. Theyโre all having kids. They have houses. They have a sense of normality.โ
Seinfeld makes a disgusted face and then says, โlet me tell you a story. This is my favorite story about show business.โ
โGlenn Miller's orchestra is doing a gig...They can't land the plane because it's winter, a snowy nightโthey have to land in this field and walk to the gig.
They're dressed in their suits. Theyโre carrying their instruments. Theyโre walking through the snowโit's wet and slushy.
And in the distance they see this little houseโฆThey go up to the house and look in the window.
Inside they see this family.
There's a guy and his wifeโsheโs beautiful. There's two kids, and they're all sitting around the table. Theyโre smiling. They're laughing. There's a fire in the fireplace...
These guys are standing there in their suits. They're wet and shivering, holding their instruments, and they're watching this incredible Norman Rockwell scene.
And one guy turns to another guy and goes, 'How do people live like that?'
That's what it's about.โ
Takeaway 1:
Comparison, it is said, is the thief of joy.
James Altucher has written about a cure for comparison.
Usually, when we compare ourselves to someone, we compare ourselves to a select few aspects of their life (their house, their good looks, or their professional success, etc.).
Instead, James writes, โpicture that you can change places in every way with them. But then itโs forever...Would you do it.โ
Usuallyโas Seinfeldโs story illustratesโthe answer isโฆno, you wouldnโt want their whole life.
Takeaway 2:
One of the differences between Seinfeld and the struggling comedian is the way in which they view comedy.
The struggling comedian sees comedy as a means to some endโthereโs some amount of money or celebrity that would make him feel like he โmade it.โ
For Seinfeld, comedy is an end in itself. โ[It] has nothing to do with โmaking it,โโ as he said.
For Seinfeld, as Ryan Holiday once told me, โThe work is the win.โ
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โThe set I get to do tonight at 7:20 PM is the win. I get to do comedyโI won. It being predicated on doing X or being bigger than Yโno, no, no. To me, itโs always just been about the work. Iโm on house money, full-time.โ โ Hasan Minhaj
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