People lack accountability, then be like "You could've just talked to me". No, I couldn't. You don't listen. You deflect. You gaslight. You make me feel like i'm the problem for bringing it up. So no, i stayed silent to protect my peace, not because I didn't want to fix.
People who complain about being cut off are usually the bad people in the story.
Nobody cuts off a good person for no reason especially after shared memories.
You’ll hurt someone repeatedly and when they cut you off, suddenly they’re the immature one? Lol
I look at where I am now, and I’m grateful because I spent time praying and asking God to be here. It’s only God that has brought me this far, and I’m so thankful.
This has nothing to do with "poor man dey face issues."
This babe loves you, and you can't see it. You're not even listening to what she is saying. I could think of a thousand better responses than the nonsense you responded.
When communicating, check for intent. She was not being malicious. She was speaking out of love. Do better.
@Olamide0fficial The man was a good husband that’s why he reaped the goodness of the wife. You no fit reap where you no sow. You can’t be part of those saying your wife isn’t your family and you will expect her to turn up for you like this. Marry a good wife, yes but be an equally good husband!!!
Romantic relationships should generally make you a happier person.
Your life should get significantly easier and more peaceful once you enter it.
If reverse is what you’re experiencing, you’re probably in the wrong place.
Save yourself.
sometimes you have to be honest with yourself and say “ i am not loved here, i’m not appreciated, i’m not valued, i’m not seen” and walk away, and stay away.
Having an emotionally mature partner is a blessing. To be able to say "Hey, this bothers me" & seeing the change almost instantaneously is really Top Tier. Like you heard me, you seen me, you validated me, you fixed the issue, no argument, no drama just pure accountability >>
But me? I love flowers A LOT. I want them delivered to the house, my job, waiting for me in the passenger seat, for my birthday, just because it's Tuesday, in a boat with a goat, on a train or a plane🤣I need em😭
“hey babe, imma be really busy today and can’t talk much, but i love you and i will hit you up as soon as I’m available to talk” 🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢type shiii
Guys please I have an SOS 🚨
My friend and her friends have been detained in Cape Verde. They’re framing them as human traffickers and denying them access to a lawyer and have them locked up. Please who can I speak to? This is URGENT!
Being with a man who is slow to take initiative is draining. You have to puushh before he does anything.
You are thinking for him, making all the plans, and constantly reminding him to do things even for himself.
I just wanted love, not project management 😭😭😭