@deonhurr@GP_oluwapelumi2 And that's why prenups exist. If someone feels strongly about protecting their assets, that should be addressed before marriage, not after. Two adults entered an agreement, and the terms of that agreement matter.
@fringe53@GP_oluwapelumi2 You're entitled to your opinion, but the details of their private lives and assumptions about the future don't change the fact that agreements were made. Two adults entered into a marriage, and two adults are responsible for the choices they make.
@AMP_FIELDVISION@GP_oluwapelumi2 That's why marriage requires conversations & protecting yourself before making that commitment. Both people take risks when they marry. A prenup exists so expectations, assets, and responsibilities are discussed before emotions and circumstances change.
@JS1554404933700@GP_oluwapelumi2 That's exactly why you protect yourself before the marriage. A prenup exists so both people can decide what happens with their assets ahead of time. Marriage is a partnership, but the terms of that partnership should be understood and agreed upon before you enter it.
@dunkthedeuce@GP_oluwapelumi2 He also didn't have to sign the prenuptial agreement if he didn't agree with the terms. That's the purpose of having those conversations before marriage. You can't enter an agreement and then blame the agreement when the terms you accepted come into play.
@LeakLeakJr@GP_oluwapelumi2 Yes, cheating is wrong, but that's where a prenup comes into play. Both people had the opportunity to review the terms, get legal advice, and ask questions before signing. He chose to sign it. When you agree to a contract, you have to accept the terms that come with it.
@LacosteTajhai@yug3nstrivia@AyooVonterio@GP_oluwapelumi2 A prenup isn't a "Black woman" issue. It's a financial conversation that any two adults can have before marriage. The right person will be willing to discuss protecting both parties, because transparency and planning matter.
@yomomma6f@The_Real_Vegass@GP_oluwapelumi2 No expert needed. It's communication. Adults in relationships have conversations, set boundaries, and make choices. If something isn't working, you address it or you leave. You don't betray an agreement and then act like you had no options.
@_DemondSam@GP_oluwapelumi2 Never said that. The point is that adults make decisions, and those decisions can have consequences. That's why you read agreements carefully, get legal advice, and understand what you're signing before you commit.
@AwsohmFinancial@GP_oluwapelumi2 If a woman cheats, the same accountability should apply. This isnβt about men vs. women. It's about choices, agreements, and both people understanding what they signed up for.
@YoungOGBurner12@GP_oluwapelumi2 Agreed, cheating shouldn't automatically be a payday. But if you're entering a marriage, you should also protect yourself with a prenup and understand the terms before you sign. Both people have a responsibility to know what they're agreeing to.
@AyooVonterio@GP_oluwapelumi2 And that's why men should always protect themselves. That's what prenuptial agreements are for. Protect yourself and your assets.
@CO_SportsPage@GP_oluwapelumi2 The financial outcome comes from the agreements, assets, and laws involved. And if a woman violates a similar agreement, the same standard should apply.
@watsongono@GP_oluwapelumi2 Money earned before the marriage is generally treated differently from assets acquired during the marriage. The question is what was considered marital property and what was covered by their agreements.
@playonplayer@GP_oluwapelumi2 And you shouldn't... But if you do decide to get married, protect yourself and your assets by getting a prenuptial agreement that clearly outlines expectations and terms. That's the whole purpose of having one. Go into it informed, not fearful.