@troutlover24 clear communication is a major part in a strong foundation for a long lasting relationship, and part of that is understanding what your partner wants and seeing if you're comfortable providing them with it or being transparent in not being able to. don't let people lie to you tho
@troutlover24 maybe a party of 1, even then he shouldn't judge others for how they spend their new years. he probably was trying to make you jealous so that he could "pity" invite you. loser mentality to mention regardless
•Key characteristics: The limerent object's imperfections become apparent, and the idealization begins to fade.
•What happens: You experience an emotional "crash”, accepting that the intense feelings may not be reciprocated or sustainable, and reality sets in.
lim·er·ence
/ˈlimər(ə)n(t)s/

noun
1a state of being infatuated or obsessed with another person, typically characterized by a strong desire for reciprocation of one's feelings but not primarily for a sexual relationship.
•What happens: Your feelings reach a height, and you become consumed by thoughts of them, hoping for reciprocated feelings while fearing rejection.
3. Deterioration
•What it is: The stage where the intense feelings and idealization begin to wear off.