Hating asexuals has to be rooted in rape culture because why else would you be THAT upset that someone is sexually inaccessible? Like why else would you care?
I wish more women knew suffering in the pursuit of romance is not normal and there is no prize for endurance. Love should feel beautiful and fun. I am tired of seeing women suffer in the name of being loved.
and i guess that passes for friendship for some people, but it doesn’t for me. i’m slow to open up and i keep my circle small. i need more than just seeing someone at group hangouts to actually call them a friend
i get along great with my friends’ boyfriends and some of them are a blast to be around, but calling them my friends feels like a stretch. we’re friendly because of proximity, not because we actually built a friendship
Saw a tiktok saying “your friend’s boyfriend is not your friend” and this is the exhausting part of dating culture with straight woman like he’s at every dinner. Every birthday etc and you’re expected to be around him constantly but you cant actually build a bond ?
Not when direct beneficiaries of apartheid and their perpetrator parents and grandparents live soft life among a sea of natives’ poverty in South Africa
The moment you understand that many of your struggles are connected to how society distributes wealth, resources, and power, you begin to see the world differently.
she absolutely will though. people don’t just stop having a life and being themselves because they’re in a relationship. if i want to go on a trip, i’m going. yall have made it seem normal to lose your entire individuality and be completely codependent and it’s weird
A woman that is super into you is not gonna want to go on a trip without you lmaooo. This just more disingenuous bullshit yall typically try to get off on here.