Idhini KE

We aim to create awareness on the topic of sexual violence while promoting comprehensive sex education for all.
Consent starts with conversations.

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

In light of the conversations on the TL on sexual violence,we as the Idhini KE team would like to remind you that informed consent should always be at the centre of any sexual activity,meaning that both parties can consciously & voluntarily choose to engage in the sexual activity

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

In light of the conversations on the TL on sexual violence,we as the Idhini KE team would like to remind you that informed consent should always be at the centre of any sexual activity,meaning that both parties can consciously & voluntarily choose to engage in the sexual activity

[Oganga Mangiti @Oganga_Mangiti]

Always come correct. Cc @idhini_ke #OgangaMangiti

[Oganga Mangiti @Oganga_Mangiti]

Check out @idhini_ke for #ConvosOnConsent
“Cheki,” a sheng’ word that loosely translates to “listen here.” #OgangaMangiti

[Oganga Mangiti @Oganga_Mangiti]

We need to be aware of the role the media has on conversations on sexual violence. Cc @idhini_ke #OgangaMangiti

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

This is a reminder on ways victim blaming manifests itself in society.
Sexual violence is never the victim's fault, no matter where they were, what they were wearing, who they were with, whether they were intoxicated or not, or the reason they were in that location.

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

Join our team members @snyambura_ and @Ayienga_ tomorrow on Instagram @idhini_ke , starting 8 pm EAT, as they tackle the topic of Withdrawal Of Consent.

#ConvosOnConsent #ConsentStartsWithConversations

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

Thank you to everyone who joined the IG live tonight ! It was such an informative and interesting session with @nyxwanga & @snyambura_ .
More to come in future... Let's keep having #ConvosOnConsent 🙌🏾💛

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

Any form of emotional or physical manipulation can be used. E.g.

- Threat of physical harm
- Using the words ‘but if you love me’
- Saying someone owed you
- Claiming that you’ve done it before
- Tears
- Using your past sexual encounters with others

Do you know any more?

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

5. What are some of the ways one can guilt/ shame you into having sex with them?

#ConvosOnConsent

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

Great point. There is the false belief that a man will have sex with you just because he is a man. Similarly just because a lady has had sexual interactions with people you know is not a reason for you to try convince her to sleep with you as well

#ConvosOnConsent

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

No one should feel like they ‘owe’ someone sex regardless of their relationship.

Again this takes away freedom to give or not give consent.

#ConvosOnConsent

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

4. Do you think it is your duty to have sex when your partner wants to?

#ConvosOnConsent

[Auntie Bob’s fan @nadups_1]

@idhini_ke The door is wide open my G....

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

This is manipulating someone into sexual activity which is a violation of their free will.

Manipulation takes away enthusiasm and freedom to make a decision.

#ConvosOnConsent

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

3. What are your thoughts on this statement?

' If you don't have sex with me, I'll leave you and date someone else'

#ConvosOnConsent

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

Interesting perspective. Thank you for bringing both sides into the picture.

If your partner is not fulfilling your needs, there’s no need to try convince them.

#ConvosOnConsent

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

Begging or being persistent is coercion. If your partner does not give you an enthusiastic and free yes , insisting is coercing them into the act which is a violation of their decision

#ConvosOnConsent

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

2. What is the issue with begging for/ being persistent on sex after someone has said no?

#ConvosOnConsent

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

- when they do not have all the facts prior to engaging in the sexual act I.e the partner withholds their STD status.

#ConvosOnConsent

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

The correct answer is Yes. One CAN be sexually violated even if they said yes.

Instances may include :

- when they withdraw consent and this is disregarded

- When their partner does a sexual act that that did not consent to

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

1. Is it Possible for someone to be sexually violated even if they say yes to the act?

Why?

#ConvosOnConsent

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

Thank you for your response. No one should feel they need to enable in sexual activity with anyone.

No is a complete answer on its own but it would be nice to offer your partner an explanation.

[Auntie Bob’s fan @nadups_1]

@idhini_ke No......but you should explain to your partner why?

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

5. What are some of the ways one can guilt/ shame you into having sex with them?

#ConvosOnConsent

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

Hey ! We hope your week is off to a great start.

We have a few questions that we'd love to engage you and your friends on this week. Feel free to reply/ Quote tweet :)

#ConvosOnConsent

[Idhini KE @idhini_ke]

4. Do you think it is your duty to have sex when your partner wants to?

#ConvosOnConsent